Okay, I have a huge bloody problem. People keep getting pissed at people who use this term. The term is slang and not officially recognized by the English Dictionary other than slang. The correct term for these words was originally a bundle of sticks for friend and over joyous for gay. Society made the term refer to homoloveuals as both of these terms. If society can do that, then the slang definition of the word could also be changed to be idiotic or something such as this. As long as you are using the word's new incorrect definition - as society has already made - in a way that is not referring to a social group in a negative way, there should be no problem in using it. If people can just randomly change the correct definition of the word to something completely irrelevant, then I should be able to too.