I'm not entirely sure what isn't getting to you; Ephialtes, but the justification that you created the best addition for a game and moderate the community is what everyone, including me, has a problem with.
All we ask is that you show a little more common decency towards the community, sure its filled with starfishs, but that also should not be a valid justification for treating them like stuff.
How are you any different from them, outside of what you've contributed if you do not set a better example?, Rotondo is an excellent example for this, while I cannot name any specific post at this time, I like him most out of the moderators because of his generally friendly stance towards the community.