stuff i have the loving money but everyone else is getting these loving gifts and im like a "social outcast" or whatever
You do know that people have only really been gifting to people they are friends with or like, right?
I've given gifts away to people, both a friend and just someone who I like on the forums.
I've not had anyone give me anything, but I'm not going to flood a topic with begs.
If I have the money for it, I buy it.
If I don't, I'd ask once and leave it that.
Besides, what goes around comes around. You normally end up having to do something nice before something nice comes back to you.