Thoughts on getting engaged younger?

[rockslide26]

I've been with this girl for what will have been three years this winter, and we've been through a whole lot together, and we're planning on getting engaged in the winter. We've been through the worst of the worst and come out stronger from it, and we can't see ourselves ever breaking up, and we'd like to be engaged now, despite the fact it's a little early, and then be married later on, when we're more financially stable. She's taken such good care of me this whole time, and I love her with all my heart, and she loves me the same. I'm also fulfilling an obligation to my great aunt in doing so, on her deathbed a few years ago, she took off her wedding ring and told me to give it to the right girl, and after talking about it with my girlfriend extensively, we think this is it. Is there any real disadvantage of this? What are your thoughts, guys? Is it too early? We'll both be legal adults when it happens, BTW.

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[BlockoCrafter]

That's really romantic of your aunt, and I think it's totally ok seeing your profile age.

[Evan5626]

It's your choice, but it has only been three years and you're 19.
Getting married ruins any chances of you wanting to date other girls. I think you should wait a couple of years more just to make sure, because this is a huge commitment. No one can see  themselves breaking up with the person they love until it happens. (Not saying it will for you, but anything is possible.)

But you've told her you want to be engaged and she's expecting it. If you back out now, she'll think you might not really love her like you say you do/get suspicious.
So I don't know, dude. Follow your heart. (lol)

[AromaniaFTW]

well that's nice.

[Yenola]

I'd say just know that she's the right one for you, there's no reason to rush finding someone.

But I wish the best of luck to you

[rockslide26]

I'd say just know that she's the right one for you, there's no reason to rush finding someone.

But I wish the best of luck to you

thank you c:

She's stayed with me through the worst of the worst, stuff most couples will never have to go through, she's committed and takes really good care of me, and we were best friends for years before we were together, I think we'll be ready

[Aripany]

Best advice I can give you, don't get married until you're over 25. Even then, make sure you have a good source of funds, a home, and a stable life before you even consider marriage. Then date her for at least another three years.

[rockslide26]

Best advice I can give you, don't get married until you're over 25. Even then, make sure you have a good source of funds, a home, and a stable life before you even consider marriage. Then date her for at least another three years.

Our plan is quite similar, we're getting engaged now but married in a while. Her family hates me though, they're Asian and really tribal

[Tomcat]

Our plan is quite similar, we're getting engaged now but married in a while. Her family hates me though, they're Asian and really tribal

chinese or korean or filipino or what

[rockslide26]

chinese or korean or filipino or what

Thai

[Tomcat]

Thai

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okay

[Bester Bageler]

Her family hates me though, they're Asian and really tribal

I would hate you to if I were Asian and knew you did things like that. So you turn into a rocket and kidnap little asian girls than blast off into the sky at baseball games??? Man your weird!

[Stained Glass]

I would hate you to if I were Asian and knew you did things like that. So you turn into a rocket and kidnap little asian girls than blast off into the sky at baseball games??? Man your weird!

Holy stuff my, sides just shattered.

[Treynolds416]

I would hate you to if I were Asian and knew you did things like that. So you turn into a rocket and kidnap little asian girls than blast off into the sky at baseball games??? Man your weird!

Don't forget the metal tentacles

[Jacksaunt]

Is this the same guy who has brain cancer and is insane?