the fact that you have to ask kind of says something, really being social is all in you, no one can really know who you are better then yourself so... i mean you should probably just not do whatever you were doing before. also look good, if you wear a brony shirt or wear the same sweater everyday, have nappy ass hair, wear a pair of cargo pants you got in 5th grade, people probably wont want to talk to you as much as someone better looking.