a 14 year old who thinks he's an aloveual?
what is with all the kids here coming to these conclusions so early lol
I don't see what's wrong with that. It's not like my identity can't change in the future; it's just how I felt since I've been going through puberty. I'm disinterested in love and I believe that I will stay like that for the rest of my life. Sure, it's a bit of leap, but, again, it's not like it's set in stone. If I said I were heteroloveual, it's unlikely you would be saying the same thing, which does seem a bit unfair, yes? Just because I feel more comfortable identifying as a loveual minority at the present doesn't mean I'm "coming those to conclusions so early."
That too, people just try to add stuff to loveualities so they can overlook the real issues.
what the forget are the real issues
Anyway, I don't see how aloveuality is an "added loveuality." I can understand (though I disagree with) why someone would believe, say, panloveuality "doesn't exist," but I fail to see why aloveuality falls under that category. If you "have to choose between two," I don't see why you can't choose neither.
The fact that I'm not loveually aroused by anyone is enough evidence for me.