It's hypocritical of me to bring the topic back up, but now that I rested (I was just done pulling off an all-nighter, and wanted to browse the forums before I slept), I just wanted to readdress everything in a more sensible way.
I just want to know: Why it is "impossible" to be 14 and identify as aloveual, or, according to the logic of DiceyGrammar, any loveuality? 4 years of going through puberty is enough time, in my opinion, to "discover yourself," and I found that I wasn't aroused by love. I fail to see how that's a premature phase I'm going through that will change. "Phases" typically last for two years, at the absolute most, and I know this. I'm a teenager who goes through all sorts of other kinds of phases. Also, plenty of people younger than me identify as heteroloveual or even homoloveual, and no one complains. Yet, it seems like when I say "I'm aloveual," people start trying to explain to me how I "just have to find the right person for me," or "everyone has to like something," or, most annoyingly, "you just haven't gone through puberty yet."
I have no idea why I was passively agreeing with you earlier. Your opinion that I cannot establish my own loveual identity at the age of 14 is wrong.
Why are you trying to prove that childofdarkness is not aloveual anyway?
If he's aloveual, he will miss a lot in his life.
If he's not aloveual, he lied for attention.
Either way, he loses, no need to make him feel worse.
I don't see how aloveuality is losing. I'm at absolutely no risk of STDs or impregnation. To me, that's winning, especially since love is boring.
