So basically, I live in a gated community. Whenever I have friends come over, we have no way to leave the community, as the gates don't have any way to leave when you're on foot. They locked the little doors near them, though they used to be open. We're other forced to wait for a car (which never comes) or we push the gate open and let me through, me being the smallest. The HOA has sent out a letter to everyone living here about me and my group of friends and they're pissed. They've got us on tape and a picture.
So yeah, I'm scared and not sure of what to do.