These all are so weird. They all seem like they're made for some people that have never had an interaction with a woman in their life. I do like the barbershop one though, it's pretty relaxing.
Perhaps i provided a baised sample in the op, but asmr is not loveual or relevant to gender at all, in fact I believe asmr was coined to describe the feeling from Bob Ross videos. Many of the more popular asmr makers are girls solely because some people prefer that, it does not, however, change the actual asmr experiance