Author Topic: So my moms in jail again.  (Read 4239 times)

and i thought I couldnt wait to get out of my parents house.

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so sad
hope you see her soon

Parents in jail never is good, I hope things don't go to stuff cause of it.

Jesus Christ, does she have an addiction to fraud or something?

Oh god that's horrible Dren. How're you doing?

My sister's been imprisoned for shoplifting a few times before.

Wow I'm really sorry to hear about that.  It looks like your mother wants to use you and your sister as henchmen too.  I hope everything ends up okay and your mother seeks some serious help.

How wasn't she happy with 60-70k? That's a pretty good amount of money to make per year.
As other people said, she didn't quit.
However it's a bit more complicated than being fired.
See, way back in the spring (i cant remember if it was before or after she got arrested, I want to say before) she got her hip replaced.
She took sick time off for this. She was able to walk and move perfectly fine after about a week and a half.
She didn't return to work for four months. She claimed she was just using all of her built up sick time because she was going to retire soon and didn't want to lose it, but I strongly doubt that for some reason. It was just as we convinced her to start working again that she ended up being arrested for the third (major) time.

She's apparently amassed a rediclious amount of unpaid fines and failure to show to court on many other offences we didn't even know about.
Most of these are traffic infractions.
She's currently being held on bail somewhere between 2,500$ and 10,000$ that my aunt is going to cover.
« Last Edit: November 10, 2013, 02:18:11 PM by DrenDran »

Not trying to be mean or anything and I hope this doesn't offend you
but your mom is horrible

Not trying to be mean or anything and I hope this doesn't offend you
but your mom is horrible
"Hey guys, I'm not trying to be mean, but you're horrible!"

"Hey guys, I'm not trying to be mean, but your MOM horrible!"
you forgot the mom



God Damn.

Jesus Christ your mom is out of her mind.

my dad did a ton of dui in 2007-2010
he had a serious alcohol problem and would call us while drunk
when driving (with us in the car) he smashed through someone's mailbox, then after dropping us off ran for it
then he later back up into someone's van and ran for it again
and the worst part was that once he came to a parent-teacher conference, drunk
he was escorted out of the building by police, but it was horrible.

he got off 3 times with no charges, he's a lawyer so he was pretty good in court, but the fourth time he had to go to rehab out of state for 120 days.

he did and is much better now. he hasn't been drunk in almost 3 years.

My dad tried to rob a jewelry store, he was then shot by said jewelry store's owner. He barely survived but even upon recovery had to go to prison for 4 years (this was when I was 4.) When he got out and I assume before he even went in, it took a while but I noticed both my parents had been doing drugs frequently (they'd trap themselves in their room so we'd never really know, until my dad managed to get so high my mom couldn't stop him from running out.) Anyways, there was a lot of going from shelter to shelter due to my parents being unable to keep a stable job due to drugs. Last year my dad died of pancreatic cancer, he had 2 weeks to live when diagnosed and died the next day instead. Although he could be considered an awful person, I can say he's probably one of the better parents out there, because although he did all this stuff he continuously beat himself up over what he was doing (this was after he was confronted by it and I and my 3 siblings knew.) He also made sure we were raised right and tried his damnedest to provide for us and make sure we were happy.

So this is all to say, I know what you're going through. Although my parents were not divorced they were considering and fights would occasionally give way to physical violence. My mom is now off drugs and for the first time in god knows how long she has a stable and honest job unlike the "jobs" my dad would have that I'm sure consisted of illegal things and granted unpredictable income. Never stop talking to your mom, no matter how much your hate her, you will regret it. I hated what my dad did but in retrospect I'm glad I never shut him out otherwise there would've been so many regrets.