im gonna break this down
The judge, who was not fond of women, picked her dad, who, from what Jill told me, wanted her so he could get the money from the whole deal. All that's a different story that I don't know much but yeah context.
here we go unfair misogyny argument from the beginning implying there was no other reason for the judge to pick the closest family member she had aside from "women sux lol"
Now, here's where the fun part comes. One thing, he's a diabetic. BUT, when he has a diabetic attack and Jill is trying to get sugar into him and help him, he just throws her aside (quite literally). Whether this is a part of what could happen during an attack I don't know, maybe some of you do. Even then, when he's not low or anything, he's just a plain flat out richard to her. He just verbally abuses her, calls her a slut and a whore when she dresses "attractively". (Which in reality isn't even close to "slutty" clothing). Whenever she'll grab a poptart or have a bowl of cereal, he'll always yell at her that she's eating all the food and leaving none for him. He'll make dinner for himself and leave none for her.
sounds to me like hes embarrassed of his condition and doesnt want to be weak for his daughter
also that he wants to have high-energy foods around in the event he has an attack
Logic does not exist with him. If he knows something, well it must be OBVIOUS and EVERYONE should know it. Otherwise you're a stupid dumbass. I was taking her home from a Christmas party we were having, and I was driving slower and more cautiously because it was really foggy out and I couldn't see amazingly well. When he called her asking "WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU, WHY AREN'T YOU HOME?", and she said "Well it's really foggy so he's driving a little slower n stuff, I'll be home in a couple of minutes." Makes sense, right? Nope. "BULLstuff. GET YOUR ASS HOME RIGHT NOW." And as soon as they hung up, she started bawling her eyes out. I literally wanted to go in that house and just punch him in the face. But I didn't because "He's a good kid."
sounds like hes just being protective of his kid, if my daughter was at a party id want to know what she was doing and have her home on time
probably wouldve been a good idea to call beforehand and let him know
Here's my no. 1 favourite example: He hasn't taken her to the dentist in years. Not for financial reasons, he just didn't take her. He finally did a couple months ago. They found 6 cavities and a possible root cbrown town needed. You would think "Oh man, he must feel terrible and is going to get that taken care of as fast as possible!" NOPE. He's making her pay for it. Every bit of it.
theres almost no information here and probably a big chunk of info missing, just that she didnt go so clearly hes a huge jerk and a war criminal
But wait, there's more! She always tells me on multiple occasions of how he's slapped her dead across the face, picked her up and slammed her onto the couch, and, on one occasion that I know of, threw her into a wall. (That one's based on something I read on her blog. Whether it's true or not is tbk, but I honestly don't doubt it.) Just the other day I was at her house to pick her up for a Christmas party we were going to, and we just saw him grab their dog by the neck and fling her outside. (she's maybe 9 years old, frail, and has serious medical problems).
normally when you slap/hit/shove someone it doesnt leave deep cuts that scar, it leaves bruises
if she really had bruises that bad im sure someone wouldve noticed and called cps long ago
Here's the kicker though. Whenever I'm over at her house, he's always all "doo do dooo I'm a great person I'm nice and kind and I don't slap your girlfriend right across her face." I call bullstuff. Don't act like your daughter doesn't tell her boyfriend when you call her a loving slut and physically harm her.
ok so basically youre taking a teenagers word over her fathers even though youve never seen him do anything to her
Now when you start thinking "Oh this is all made up/she's probably lying to you for sympathy", it's not and she's not. She's got scars to prove it, and I've seen how he treats the dog. There are times where I want to just walk in there and speak my mind. If I wanted to I could shut him down so hard Australia could feel it. But I'm not. Not yet. Not until she's moved out and we've got a place together.
refer to response two places above
also lol 17 and already wanting to live with someone youre hardly in a dedicated relationship with
You seriously need to read the OP again.
im pretty sure i already have at least 3 times
