Author Topic: what would you do if your son told you that he was gay  (Read 6433 times)

i'd be chill
too bad i hate kids so i'm not having any
« Last Edit: December 30, 2013, 09:27:17 AM by Mr Man »

disown him, and if he refuses to leave me alone, crucification.

explode him!!
Boo! If son's dad going to explode son, then son and dad going to be dead cause of the bomb range (Or if dad will run). Mom will die too if she's close to bomb



honestly idk what id do. id probably be speechless for a few years.
Father of the year 2012.

Sacrifice a ox faun in hopes god all mighty will fix it.

whats with all the family men
I didn't notice any?

...No
Things like this you don't need to try to know what you like
How would you know lol


Boo! If son's dad going to explode son, then son and dad going to be dead cause of the bomb range (Or if dad will run). Mom will die too if she's close to bomb

Furling Jr.


i'd be okay with it as long as he tries both genders out first before deciding

that's reasonable, right?
"oh, you think you're straight? how could you know if you've never tried it with a dude?"
that's kind of how i view stuff like that

I'd take him to a therapist.
I'm sure the therapist wouldn't agree with you
You guys aren't getting it.
Ebube is a bad father for another reason besides not giving his son personal rights.
Therapist
Therapist.
Yeah.
Ebube wants his son to catch a STD...
Worst Father 2014

Quote from: gotquestions.org
Question: "How should Christian parents respond if one of their children comes out as gay?"

Answer: If a child reveals his or her homoloveuality, the first thing for Christian parents to do is let their child know that, no matter what, love and grace will win the day. Mom and dad’s love will continue, regardless. First John 4:8 says, “The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” “God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance” (Romans 2:4).

All parents need to remember that our children (like ourselves) have heart issues. We’re not trying to put good fruit on bad trees; we are passionately praying for our wayward children that God would change the roots of the tree—that He might remove their heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh (see Ezekiel 36:26).

Parents should also encourage a child who has “come out” not to define himself as a “homoloveual.” It’s important to ask questions: Are you in a relationship? Is the relationship loveual or platonic? Have you acted out your feelings of same-love attraction, or are they just thoughts you have? Parents can come alongside a struggling child and help him see that he is not “gay” simply because he has homoloveual thoughts. Rather, he is struggling with homoloveual desires or same-love attraction.

The difference between struggling with homoloveuality and identifying oneself as gay may seem subtle, but it is a huge distinction, and here’s why. God never created us to be homoloveual. In Christ that is not who we are. In Christ we are a new creation. Christians may struggle with impatience, idolatry, lust, or pride. Christians may struggle with same-love attraction, but that does not make them homoloveuals. We are new creations in Christ.

So, Christian parents can approach their child as broken people and offer to struggle together through their imperfections. It is important that we never communicate to those who have same-love tendencies that their sin is the worst of all sins. Yes, homoloveuality is sinful, but not to a level above that of heteroloveual lust or lying or pride. The truth is we are all broken, and we all need help to remain pure.

Also, Christian parents should make clear their biblical convictions, but only after they have established a basis of love and grace and empathy and compassion. Your children need to know that the Bible is the supreme authority on all matters of faith and conduct. Not mom, not dad, not peers, not the church. And the Bible says that homoloveuality is counter to God’s intended purpose for human beings. loveuality must be heteroloveual in nature and within the boundary of marriage.

If a child says, “I am homoloveual. That’s the way it is, and I don’t care what God thinks,” then clearly the parents are back at step one. This child needs a serious heart change, and only God can change the heart. Sin is a heart problem, and until God changes the heart and the child is gripped by the grace of God, nothing will matter. A parent’s convictions will not matter. The letter of the law will not matter. Love is key. It is what drove the prodigal son back to the arms of his father (Luke 15:11–32), and it is, according to the apostle Paul, the greatest of gifts (1 Corinthians 13:13).

Recommended Resources: Coming out of Homoloveuality by Bob Davies and 101 Frequently Asked Questions About Homoloveuality by Mike Haley and Logos Bible Software.

Read more: http://www.gotquestions.org/Christian-parents-of-gay-children.html#ixzz2ozOwim8P

I wouldn't care. I'll just say ok...