what would you do if your son told you that he was gay

[bejacks]

I'd crucify him then burn him at the stake

I'd actually be ok with it.

[Ad Bot]

[Stocking]

No mom I'm not sure I'm gay, I've only had loveual feelings for guys and I've never found girls attractive at all, and I've always thought this way, so I'm not 100% sure, y'know? Maybe I still MIGHT consider pusillanimous individual if it was like a really really nice one

I don't even mind you saying it would suck, as rude as that kind of is, but asking "are you sure"
What
Give me a break
It's not like they're picking a favorite color, yes they're sure if they want a richard instead of a pusillanimous individual, they're gay

That's not really fair. I thought I was gay in middle school, I mean I even had love with a girl. I turned out straight though, so I mean it's entirely possible it's just a phase or maybe he only has strong feelings for one guy in particular. Living life as a homoloveual is a huge decision and if he outs himself as being gay he'll be ostracized from a lot of social cliques at school forever even if he turns out to be straight.

[AdinX]

It's not a choice or a condition
Experimenting with love is a whole different story
"Thought" you are gay isn't how most gay kids come out to their parents
Every gay friend I have has made SURE they're gay and have gotten support from friends before telling their parents

Being gay is like being blonde
You are born that way, it makes you who you are
And there is so much more to being gay than "having love with the same gender"
No. It's also loving the other person.
And maybe you did, maybe you did love the aforementioned person
But a lot of people see being gay as a special interest
And it's not
It's still love
It's still arguing over who takes out the trash
It's still cuddling on the couch
It's still baking cookies, making out and forgetting they're in the oven
It's still two human beings who care for one another

So as much as it would "suck" to have a gay kid because that's so bad compared to a straight kid
Yes, they are sure, and if they aren't sure, saying "are you sure" could deeply offend them if they're still figuring it out. Imagine telling your mom "I think I'm straight" and she says "are you sure? I mean, being lesbian is pretty great, why would you want a guy?" Would you not feel pressured?

[Swat 3]

Human loveuality is fluid, you are never fully straight 'nor or you never fully gay.

Or you are secretly biloveual and you are denying it.

That's not really fair. I thought I was gay in middle school, I mean I even had love with a girl. I turned out straight though, so I mean it's entirely possible it's just a phase or maybe he only has strong feelings for one guy in particular. Living life as a homoloveual is a huge decision and if he outs himself as being gay he'll be ostracized from a lot of social cliques at school forever even if he turns out to be straight.

Being homoloveual is not a life style. It does not require you to start wearing pink, have an annoying voice, and join plays all the while screaming "fabulous". It is not a decision, it is just what you feel. All of these are labels, if he likes men he likes men, if he likes girls he likes girls.

eh

[Stocking]

Look I don't have anything against gay people, but there are a stuff load of things that homoloveuals are ostracized from and considering where most of my family is from, they'd ostracize my family just for having a gay son. I'd be forced to choose between my son and my family, and I would lose my family as a result. It's a huge deal, and there are a lot of hardships that are completely non-existent for straight children. Get off your pulpit you self-righteous cunt, I never said anything was wrong with being gay.

I couldn't imagine how severely my life would have been affected if I had told my family I was gay back in grade school. I would essentially be burdened with all the societal rejection that comes with homoloveuality but I wouldn't even be homoloveual. Do you not see how that's an issue? Or are you just going to play the social-justice warrior and take everything I say the absolute wrongest way possible?

[Starzy]

I wouldn't give a stuff, so what if he likes another man, i'd just say "cool, now finish your homework or play some more games or whatever you kids do nowadays." I mean it's not like it was 30 years ago, were you'd be hung for being gay. We have LGBT marriage coming legal for a reason.

[Headcrab Zombie]

It's still love
It's still arguing over who takes out the trash
It's still cuddling on the couch
It's still baking cookies, making out and forgetting they're in the oven
It's still two human beings who care for one another

I found that cute

I couldn't imagine how severely my life would have been affected if I had told my family I was gay back in grade school. I would essentially be burdened with all the societal rejection that comes with homoloveuality but I wouldn't even be homoloveual. Do you not see how that's an issue? Or are you just going to play the social-justice warrior and take everything I say the absolute wrongest way possible?

You didn't tell your parents because you didn't know you were gay.
By the time people are actually telling their parents, they do know they're gay

[Mura]

id suck his richard so good

[Filipe]

I would be okay but dissapointed deep down, it's good to keep the family running, maybe when I get old I will like to have grandsons

[Mura]

I would be okay but dissapointed deep down, it's good to keep the family running, maybe when I get old I will like to have grandsons

u can have black grandsons

[Steve5451²]

I would be okay but dissapointed deep down, it's good to keep the family running, maybe when I get old I will like to have grandsons

That's really the only reason I'd be upset, I guess.
I'd be scared he'd turn into one of those *. ~Fabulous~ .* gays, though. Probably have a talk with him about that.

[Night Fox]

Human loveuality is fluid, you are never fully straight 'nor or you never fully gay.

excuse me? who the hell are you to say that about other people? just because you feel that way doesn't mean you get to pretend it applies to everyone

[mp7964]

honestly idk what id do. id probably be speechless for a few years.

intolerance.

excuse me? who the hell are you to say that about other people? just because you feel that way doesn't mean you get to pretend it applies to everyone

don't get all pissy about an offhand comment that wasn't even directed to you.

[Night Fox]

don't get all pissy about an offhand comment that wasn't even directed to you.

don't get pissy because someone just said I wasn't gay? doesn't matter if it was said specifically to me

[Thompson2Electricboogaloo]