you are preaching to generation Y. The feel good, entitled, special, spoon-fed tolerance lessons at extreme levels.
so much that they actually believe when they leave school, the rest of the world acts this way. and that its even realistic to do so.
They then are hit by that harsh reality that the world does not like them, and they have to earn respect by conforming. THAT is reality.
until that happens, they will never understand. they are still waiting to be loved because they were told they should be.
god forbid you dont like something about them, they think its your fault.