How to come out?

[Rooged]

christ, i come back after like 2 years and night fox is still a huge bitch

[Ad Bot]

[Maxwell.]

no

im saying that frankie can act a better way in this situation that will cause less problems than straight up insulting him.

and so can night fox

[ultimamax]

I'm still confused about what about he said was tribal.

[Nobot]

Did someone even give the OP good advice? Or was this whole topic pretty much Night Fox being a brick wall?
Bet you he will respond to all of these posts, probably even this one, and try to justify what he said furthermore.
Problem is, it wasn't justified. He flipped stuff. Overreacted. Learn to deal with it Night Fox. Ughh.

OT:
OP, just straight up tell her you are attracted to men. She will most likely understand.
You don't have to just say "I'm gay."

[Shy_Guy]

Wait until collage. Why? Your parents will hate you and will try to say "It will pass away". Trust me just wait man. I told my friend to wait but she didn't listen me and went to her other friend thus she tell her family she was bi and got in to deep stuff.

[Night Fox]

Problem is, it wasn't justified. He flipped stuff. Overreacted. Learn to deal with it Night Fox. Ughh.

but SORRY. for being rude. to anyone who I was rude to. it was pretty uncalled for to get all vulgar and jerky about it

[Nobot]

thanks for apologizing and realizing you overreacted

[Bisjac]

I didn't have to announce to my family that I was straight.
Not because acceptance issues. It's because it dosnt concern them at all.

Why do gay people give such a forget about family acceptance. Yet most of em will declare gay pride.
You can't do both

[Nymph]

I didn't have to announce to my family that I was straight.
Not because acceptance issues. It's because it dosnt concern them at all.

But it does concern their parents. The reason you didn't have to tell your parents you where straight is because that's what they assume.

[Maxxi]

i knew this day would come
i mean come on you can do it
every other gay guy has came out to their mother/father
come along and build up some courage
forget this i suck so bad at these puns
im so sorry
in all reality just flat out say you're gay
its not rocket science or something
and stick it in he-
i keep forgetting sorry

[Bisjac]

But it does concern their parents. The reason you didn't have to tell your parents you where straight is because that's what they assume.

Unless they had already arranged your marriage to the daughter of your dad's work friend.

Then no it dosn't concern them

[$trinick]

I'm 15, and I feel uncomfortable coming out to my mother, She said she'll still love me, but I still don't know if I should, thoughts?

If your mom literally said "I'll still love you if you're gay," she already knows you're gay.

[Kearn]

If your mom literally said "I'll still love you if you're gay," she already knows you're gay.

yeah from the sound of it she already knows

[Nymph]

Unless they had already arranged your marriage to the daughter of your dad's work friend.

Then no it dosn't concern them

I'm pretty sure you can't arrange marriages in the US, at least without both sides consent. besides, what the hell does that have to do with anything.

[Bisjac]

Exactly. Because there would be no other reason it matters if the parents are accepting or not.
To be scared as a kid in the us over being gay is the most ridiculous thing ever.