and "I couldn't tell you were gay" just triggered it
that article on heteroloveism is stupid as forget. just because someone assumes you're straight doesn't mean they think it's the only "norm". they're probably assuming you're straight because, get this,
most people arethe idea that you can just "realize" someone is gay, is the problem, ffs
talk about wordy picking. why do people do this stuff? he probably meant it along the lines of "oh I wasn't aware you were gay"