one of the girls from my old school was actually a dude

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Simply it should just be:
Meet, accidentally use incorrect pronouns, be corrected, use correct ones from now on.

If you purposely use incorrect pronouns instead of the requested ones, that's wrong.  If you make a mistake every once and a while, its just a mistake.  Correct it and move on.

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the way i see it

if someone chastises you for saying he the first time you meet em instead of ze or something

that's probably not a person you want in your life

yeah i agree with this but people always say this and..... ive never actually seen someone like this? like anyone would know its bad but ive seen a lot of trans people and i havent even heard of anyone like that