um, instead of doing that you could just clarify instead of being a jackass about it
you're right. I was in the middle of an argument with someone else when I said that and didn't really think about being rude. sorry for that. but, seriously, do I really need to clarify? you genuinely can't figure out what I was trying to say?
i dont really get it? he was making a joke. not whining
it being a joke (that is, making fun of someone) doesn't prevent it from being incredibly rude