also, my friend (who is trans) said she's not "dysphoric" per se. she's not dissatisfied at all about her body, she just wants to do girly things like wear dresses. she's pretty happy with her life though, which i guess is why they find it offensive when someone comes along and declares that they MUST be upset with their body if they want a gender that's different from their given love.
nah, she just feels like a girl mentally but she's okay with her body.