why can't they get it through their thick skulls
if you have a loving richard then you're a male, if not then you're female
what is so hard about that

hermaphrodites
Remove the vagina = male love, remove snake and testicles = female love. Treat with proper hormones, call it a day, end of story.
Like seriously if you gender is polymorpheusbluefalcon, fluid gender, or polygendericecactus then you really need to re-think your life or something. Like seriously those aren't real lovees or gender at all. Accept for what nature made you and move on. There are lot more things to life than crying about how you are being marginalized and oppressed.