oh I thought you were talking about the stuff kimon posted about headcanons
i kinda did too
i posted that a millisecond or two before kimon's edit
or i didn't see it
also "xe" is supposed to be a gender neutral pronoun that's somewhat accepted (spellcheck isn't underlining it if that means anything to you) but i think it's really clunky
they is so much better tbh and it's not that hard to tell whether it's singular or plural based on context