But the definition of child enthusiast is to be loveually attracted to a child
NO.
It is NOT.
This is a misconception that is shared by nearly every single loving person like, ever
The suffix "phile" denotes extreme affliction for the base word. It has nothing to do with loveual attraction.
Audiophiles are not loveually attracted to audio. Bibliophiles are not loveually attracted to books.
You can love something without wanting to loving violate it.