ok normally I wouldnt take mus's side
but your loveual preferences are your own business and absolutely <no one> elses, you don't loving talk about what makes you hard, and you don't ASK someone what makes them hard, that's not how this stuff works
a special interest is like a snake, it's fine to have one, its alright to be proud of it, but it's wise to refrain from whipping it out in public and start flailing it around like a flag