Author Topic: I figured out I'm in love with my best friend (Read 4774 times)

Tetris · July 19, 2014, 06:24:51 AM

Quote from: superslayer on July 19, 2014, 06:22:41 AM

My best friend knows I really like her, and she jokes about it all the time, but has clearly stated she isn't interested in me. We're cool, so it really depends on the people.

that is loving sad

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superslayer · July 19, 2014, 06:27:06 AM

Quote from: Tetris on July 19, 2014, 06:24:51 AM

that is loving sad

Is it really? I like her, and she said

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I don't want to risk what we have getting awkward

. I honestly have no problem with this, because really why should i? Should i be hurt that someone doesn't want to date me?

st8terblock · July 19, 2014, 06:44:57 AM

I don't care if she likes me or not I just need to tell her.

Jaxx · July 19, 2014, 06:50:52 AM

don't equate "i'm really just brimming with testosterone right now and need to get a bean off" with "i'm deeply, irrevocably emotionally attached to you and it would crush me to hear otherwise.". i did.

sir dooble · July 19, 2014, 07:26:22 AM

Both get drunk and fumble around together.

Hansome duded · July 19, 2014, 07:49:52 AM

Quote from: st8terblock on July 19, 2014, 06:44:57 AM

I don't care if she likes me or not I just need to tell her.

I've already done stuff like this. I asked out my friend and her parents said no. She's interested though. Nothing changed, except my friends making perverted jokes and more awkward moments. But that was about it.

If you truly worship the friendship, the ultimate decision would be up to you. BUT you said you want to tell her. Just remember to clarify that you want to continue to be friends if she says no. Schedule some hangout and tell her there.

pefu19 · July 19, 2014, 08:49:31 AM

if she's your best friend and you are hers you can say bye bye

0xBRIANSMITH · July 19, 2014, 09:07:18 AM

Tried that once

Didn't pan out too well. Barely ever talk to her anymore

Biostorm · July 19, 2014, 09:40:17 AM

Too late man. You're so deep in the friendzone you'll never get out. It's likely she's bro-zoned you at this point. It'll be too awkward for her to like you back in that way.