Author Topic: (no hate replies please) i have a crush on my straight friend  (Read 27213 times)

you aren't making it seem any better you know
I can't, its what Christians believe.

Both me and you can see it scientifically easily enough. But they don't see it that way.

nothing you're saying makes it not homophobic. like, ok, their religion is why they are. but they still are. people have tried to justify murder through religion, that doesn't make it okay

nothing you're saying makes it not homophobic. like, ok, their religion is why they are. but they still are. people have tried to justify murder through religion, that doesn't make it okay
I don't see planr murdering homoloveuals? All i know is i know for sure he doesn't hate gay people. You seem too though and i guess you go with whatever floats your boat.

I don't see planr murdering homoloveuals?
I'm not clear on why you said this. I didn't accuse planr of murder
All i know is i know for sure he doesn't hate gay people. You seem too though and i guess you go with whatever floats your boat.
"not hating" gay people doesn't make you not homophobic. and too what?

There is no use arguing against religious people, because you can't.

They have their faith, you can't change it one bit. I am leaning toward "supreme man with wings or some stuff topkek", but def. not the Bible God. I would call myself agnostic, too, because I wouldn't give a stuff.

You can't change what someone's believes in. You can't call them "you hating bigot!!!!" when they say something they believe in.

But y'know, except the part where the Leveticus part of the Bible was specifically made for a group of people called levites, and the other mention of it in Romans or something was a total mistranslation.
Oh, and the part where Jesus said "lol forget it topkek" about some parts of the Old Testament.

i would laugh very hard if the word 'topkek' was in the Bible.

So when is OP going to tell us if he forgeted his friend or not, I'm on the edge of my seat right now waiting

I would call myself agnostic, too, because I wouldn't give a stuff.
that isn't what agnosticism means though

Guys, i did say this weekend, so nothing happened...Yet , so heres how ill do it...

"Hey, can we talk?"

Him "yea, whats it about?"

"Well, first off, how do you feel about gay people?"

If he says he's ok with us, and if possibly he says he's gay, here's how it will go

"Y-You are? So am I!"

Him "Really?"

"Yea, and here's the other thing, i love you"

Sounds stupid, but hey, im trying

Well, if you're gonna come out to him, don't do what I did and come out with a joke

I really feel like you're trying to rush things. definitely don't tell him you love him right off the bat. at least you should be in a relationship with him for a while first, IF that even happens

asking him about his views on gay people is probably the best step right now

keep us updated


maybe you should just start with "how do you feel about gay people" so you don't need to follow it up if it goes south