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what should i do

nothing
52 (26.9%)
tell parents
51 (26.4%)
make a situation where the parents find out
35 (18.1%)
give her a "talk"
21 (10.9%)
other
3 (1.6%)
call the cops?
31 (16.1%)

Total Members Voted: 193

Author Topic: My sister is illegally holding alcohol  (Read 35690 times)

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If history taught me anything, people rarely went to church or loosely followed the bible.

These guys probably went the bar after long days work and drank till they were on the floor, probably mingled too with the local brothel.

First of all, how am I saying that harm has no brain? I never said that or implied it. Remotely.

Second of all, since when did drinking ever become a priority in anyone's life except an alcoholics? Drinking isn't strange, or abnormal. Younger teenagers in Europe have wine occasionally, so what's so wrong with have a beer or two? As long as you have control over it it's actually a good thing, it teaches you to manage yourself with alcohol for when you become an adult.
1)  You said that he doesn't think in the form of a rhetorical question.

2)  I agree with you on that.  Outside of American cultures, there's a lot more focus on social drinking.  However, cultures in Europe are far more unified than in America, and the reason why underage drinking, amongst many, many other things will not work is because of America's diverse culture combined with the major consensus of America not wanting to become more progressive and leap headlong into the 21st Century.  The culture is trying to do this, but social norms will not accept it, and therefore, the culture is divided, harms itself, and makes the newer form look bad.  Probably just me billowing nonsense, but it made sense to me.  PM me if you would like me to explain further.

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If history taught me anything, people rarely went to church or loosely followed the bible.

These guys probably went the bar after long days work and drank till they were on the floor, probably mingled too with the local brothel.
They worked hard, they deserved it.
Some white 1st world 15 year old girl has never done an honest day's work in her life, forget her lol

but totally not in a literal sense or anything guys ;)

He should still tell her parents, and her parents should punish her.
Stealing not okay
Underage drinking not okay
Remember when we had morals?

Stealing and underage drinking are not okay, but it's not her brother's job to discipline her for those things. He can shame her for it or have a talk with her, but it's not his position to enact his personal values on someone who is not under his supervision by initiating the process of discipline. If their parents find out, then they should punish her. He should not punish her via their parents.

See if you can talk to your parents while she is sleeping. Make sure to tell them that whatever she says about you placing it in her room is completely false.

Apparently she's drinking just enough wine that her parents are noticing something weird but not enough that they actually suspect any wrongdoing. Of course this depends on how much they drink, but I would say that if her consumption was even 1/4 of their consumption they would notice something off. So assuming they drink 2 glasses a day each (it's a generous estimate, not a lot of people drink 2 glasses every day) then she would be drinking 1 glass per day, on average, which wouldn't be enough to damage her unless they were aggregated into drinking sessions once every week where she could consume 7 glasses of wine at once. I don't know if you've ever tried to drink 7 glasses of wine in one night, but even to a trained tongue that's a challenge. So let's split it and say 3.5 glasses twice a week, which would be good enough to get a good buzz going but not usually enough to be considered 'drunk' even to a small 14 year old girl. If she kept this habit up until she turned 18, her brain development would deviate from normal but due to brain plasticity there probably wouldn't be too much of a notable effect. I agree that this generous scenario would be detrimental to her health, but consuming 1/4 of her parents total liquor supply for the next 4 years would be a rather unattainable goal.
Then again, she's stealing their hard-earned booze. I say OP should finish off a bottle and blame it on his sister. Win-win.

See if you can talk to your parents while she is sleeping. Make sure to tell them that whatever she says about you placing it in her room is completely false.
no shut your cheeseburger ass up boy he shouldnt be telling his parents stuff he should squash the beef with his sister 1v1 not on some dwayne johnson snitch stuff

Give your parents an anonymous tip. They'll never figure out who made it.


I don't know, I think holding alcohol in general should be illegal.



Drink it or share it man, but don't just hold it :D

ban her
why did no one say this from the start
it solves everything

why did no one say this from the start
it solves everything
ok then ill report her



I don't know, I think holding alcohol in general should be illegal.

Drink it or share it man, but don't just hold it :D

Amen, brotha.