Author Topic: I just need to vent...  (Read 2685 times)

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So, life has not been going so well for me lately. Everything going on has been putting me in a stuffty, depressed mood. I've had my only friend at school move to a different school unexpectedly, I've had my favorite cat put down yesterday, My classmates are treating me like stuff, My teachers are treating me like stuff, My online friends are starting to talk to me less and less, I've been feeling more and more like a forgetup, I've had tons of embarrasing forgetups in just this month, I've gotten a couple of expensive things with my B-day money that are broken just after their warranty expired, I've been doing worse in school, I've lost interest in a lot of things I used to love, I've been feeling especially tired recently, and my parents have been more and more dis-trusting of me, despite the fact that I did nothing to break their trust. It's starting to grate on me, and I just needed to vent somewhere.

I feel like stuff too. I'm actually on the brink of being dropped from my school due to lack of attendance caused by anxiety issues, though it's possible I'm already dropped. I've been to five therapists and all of them either never called back, weren't what I was looking for, or just flat-out gave up. My dad is considering a psych ward.
« Last Edit: November 21, 2014, 12:41:10 AM by the hacker »

Here we can we friends on steam or Daprogs RTB, That will cheer you up. My school is hard to :/

You should talk to someone about this. It sounds like you might have somethining developing, if not already present.
DISCLAIMER: I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist. I have almost no idea what I'm talking about.
« Last Edit: November 21, 2014, 12:42:23 AM by WaterOre »

Talk to your parents.
Let them know how you're feeling and what's bothering you.
Write a list if it helps and show them.

Have a proper heart-to-heart chat with them. That's what parents are for. Just give them a chance to listen and understand and ask for their advice.

Here we can we friends on steam or Daprogs RTB, That will cheer you up. My school is hard to :/

What is your steam? I'll add you tomorrow

Talk to your parents.
Let them know how you're feeling and what's bothering you.
Write a list if it helps and show them.

Have a proper heart-to-heart chat with them. That's what parents are for. Just give them a chance to listen and understand and ask for their advice.

I'm afraid to do so.  They'd ridicule me, or just tell me to ignore it and not even care

This is the biggest bullstuff in the world.

Why can't people just talk to the people that obviously care for them? What the forget is wrong with that? Do what dooble said, talk to your parents. Communication solves problems, and you're clearly not communicating with people.

Dude, you are not a forgetup. I repeat, you are not a forgetup.

stuff gets rough. Make it get better. Don't wait for your friends to talk to you, talk to them. Buy a new cat. Spend more time with your parents. Change your perspective. Watch some funny videos. Get a girlfriend. Get your mind out of the gutters! If you tell yourself that everything sucks, then everything sucks. If you want things to get better, make them get better. Don't just sit around waiting for them to.

I can understand why he doesn't want to, my parents used to be like his too. Explain a problem, and they undermine it and tell you you're overreacting.

However, it's worth a shot
 People care about you bro, whether you see it or not, it's just a rough patch right now. Things will get better. Just take your problems on one at a time with some help and guidance.

DISCLAIMER: I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist. I have almost no idea what I'm talking about.
it's like everybody on this forum is either a lawyer or psychologist
or idiot

OT: I agree with aftershock above me.

Sounds like you're going through a bit of a rough patch, which is okay. Make sure you're getting enough exercise, sun and fresh air, and try to think positively. Don't be too concerned about what other people think of you, you get 100 years on Earth at best, make them for yourself.

If the feeling persists for an extended period of time you might consider getting an opinion from a professional.

Sorry this is happening to you man. When I'm in times like that, where nothing is going my way, and it feels like the whole world is against me, I just remember that God uses those tough times to turn my attention back to him; He uses the times when I'm broken to remind me that He is the only one who really matters in life, and that nothing and no one else can satisfy the inner longings of my heart. I've found that, when I am faced with completely hopeless circumstances, just like what you're going through, that it reminds me of how truly messed up this sin-filled world is, and how God is the only one who can help me and give me something to look forward to every day: Deliverance from this painful, screwed-up life, to one day spend eternity with him.
« Last Edit: November 21, 2014, 08:22:20 AM by Planr »

Sorry this is happening to you man. When I'm in times like that, where nothing is going my way, and it feels like the whole world is against me, I just remember that God uses those tough times to turn my attention back to him; He uses the times when I'm broken to remind me that He is the only one who really matters in life, and that nothing and no one else can satisfy the inner longings of my heart. I've found that, when I am faced with completely hopeless circumstances, just like what you're going through, that it makes me realize how truly messed up this world is, and how God is the only one who can help me and give me something to look forward to every day: Deliverance from this painful, screwed-up life, to one day spend eternity with him.
some people don't believe in god though, this might not help op at all. though it's great you try to help

Add me on Steam if you want to talk about it. I go through depression every day, I'll understand just about anything of it.

http://steamcommunity.com/id/elecr0/

I'm afraid to do so.  They'd ridicule me, or just tell me to ignore it and not even care
You don't know that until you try.

And even if they ridicule you or have a laugh, or don't fully understand what you're going through, they still love you.
Don't be afraid to talk to your parents because you think they'll no longer care about you. They will care.
And you know, your parents were your age once. Chances are they've been in similar situations. Seek out people you can trust with a greater world experience than you. Parents, Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles are all meant for that.