Okay. You know what? Since you seem to be so dense I might as well type up the exact reasons everyone seems to hate you:
1. From your first post you've been trying to start stuff with people. First it was your drama about joejack, and it spiraled from there. Most of your posts are in drama, and you've started a lot of topics there. Your account is literally based around starting stuff. Even the pictures in this thread note that you like to start stuff - you joined that MERP server to scrape the bottom of the bucket, it looks like - you were confused about not having been perma'd from there.
2. You start dramas about useless stuff. 'Oh no someone stole my name because I changed it!' 'Oh no this guy's a family man!' Neither of these were necessary and could have easily been avoided, but you had to let fly a bunch of stuff from your butthurt ass. Go take a chill pill and think about the words 'common sense'.
3. You're dense. People pointed out what you did wrong, and you made a fuss about it instead of actually fixing the problem.
All I can give you in terms of a solution is for you to stop posting, sit down, and look back on your mistakes. Hopefully it'll eventually come to you, and you'll fix it on your own.