i think i communicated with a deceased family member in my sleep last night

[hillkill]

i don't really believe in that stuff, but what happened last night was just so significant, that it was just overwhelming.

i dozed off while my grandpa was talking to me last night, and i was walking up a flight of stairs in what looked like an apartment complex. i opened one of the rooms and my mom was in the room, and my dad was laying on the bed, seemingly dead. i started to cry and then he stood up, and i was just so happy after seeing that. i guess my real life me wanted some answers so i asked him some thing. i asked him a lot of questions and he would just sit there looking at me. a few seconds after that, he opened his mouth and said, "john, i'm here, don't worry anymore." after that, i woke up.

i'm going to state right here and now since you guys think every post someone makes about their life is pleading for attention, that i'm not pleading for sympathy. if you don't believe me, ok then, it doesn't bother me.

what do you guys think?

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[ThatRandomGuy]

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[Tetro Block]

Well they say family members who have died can "wait" for the "right moment" before "leaving". You will only understand the words in quotations if you have an open mind.

[Crispy_]

very creepy

take it as you will, it could be a dream influenced by something you watched before you slept or just something really freaky going on

[Juncoph]

if i recall, most nightmares are basically your body making you get used to/figure things out but dont quote me on this

[Oasis]

Your brain processes daily thoughts and experiences during sleep. But hey man, whatever floats your boat.

[Juncoph]

Your brain processes daily thoughts and experiences during sleep. But hey man, whatever floats your boat.

this is basically what i meant but i cannot into words

[Maxwell.]

Well as silly as this may sound, he's wanting you to not give up no matter how depressing things get and how worried you are (like these past few years as far as I'm aware), he's always with you and you'll always think of him.

I mentioned past few years because you're obviously saddened after his death which I still remember the drama over, and I respect that. This is no insult but it's basically repeating what he said; whatever is worrying you like no girlfriend or no father, you need to move on from it. It's not telling you to forget about it, but it's just telling you that it will not hurt you in years to come. Although I don't know what exactly is worrying you but whatever it is, don't think of it as a negative and downfall experience in your life; think of it as learning and living life. We all go through it at some point. Look at what's coming next, like an even better girlfriend who you'll make a nice life with.

[Satan From Wreck-It-Ralph]

stop smoking

[Lego lad]

you're in a simulation

[Bisjac]

people are so superstitious, or just wanting to believe these things.

its kinda dangerous to be so open minded that just any crazy stuff fiction you read or see on tv can be true to you.

[Oasis]

people are so superstitious, or just wanting to believe these things.

its kinda dangerous to be so open minded that just any crazy stuff fiction you read or see on tv can be true to you.

I say always have an open mind, but be smart enough to dismiss total stuff when you encounter it.

[weaver123]

Me too.

[hillkill]

Well as silly as this may sound, he's wanting you to not give up no matter how depressing things get and how worried you are (like these past few years as far as I'm aware), he's always with you and you'll always think of him.

I mentioned past few years because you're obviously saddened after his death which I still remember the drama over, and I respect that. This is no insult but it's basically repeating what he said; whatever is worrying you like no girlfriend or no father, you need to move on from it. It's not telling you to forget about it, but it's just telling you that it will not hurt you in years to come. Although I don't know what exactly is worrying you but whatever it is, don't think of it as a negative and downfall experience in your life; think of it as learning and living life. We all go through it at some point. Look at what's coming next, like an even better girlfriend who you'll make a nice life with.

this seems like the most logical explanation so far. i have both social anxiety and major depression, both of which prevent me from doing anything i want to do. it's kind of the factor now of "how can i control it?"