put yourself in the shoes of a black youth living in the ghetto right now. you want to escape - many do. so you go to school to be educated... except the schools in your neighborhood are terrible. the staff is underpaid, the students don't care, and there isn't enough funding to get any nice resources. and every moment you're at school, you're not providing money for your mom and lil sister. so you are forced to work instead of get a meager education- and the only place where you can get a job is at a 7-11, getting minimum wage, cus the offices aren't hiring, and they were never hiring hoodrats to begin with, so let's just say your resume is thinned out. and working 9 to 11 at 7 dollars an hour would be nice if you could keep all the money, but you have to pay taxes and help buy clothes, food, supplies, etc. so most of that money doesn't see your pocket.
so now you've got little to no money, you've got no foundation, not enough education, and you could get caught in the crossfire of a gang war at any moment or get arrested for just standing around to boot.
that's what systematic oppression is like. it traps people.
It's not like we're talking about escaping a third world nation -- this is America, not Afghanistan. I will say that you made great points, and I can sympathize without a doubt. There is a major class inequality going on in America today. It is not exclusively black people suffering from poverty -- but also whites, Hispanics and Asians. In theory, every group is subject to poverty. However, within some groups, poverty is more prevalent. Needless to say, there are ways to get out of the cycle. Our ancestors did it, and these people can too.
You brought up another great point about how students simply don't care, and that is completely true. They see how many of their peers and family members weren't able to make it -- and that leads them to believe that they cant make it either. If they don't care, society won't care. You have to make an effort, and you cant give up. Most of America's millionaires didn't inherit their wealth, a great proportion of those who are at the top 1% came from very poor families. I am aware that there are also many who solely inherited wealth, but the majority are self-made these days. Getting out of poverty is a lot easier than what it used to be, especially with the online web (internet).
If an employer sees you acting in such a way, then they won't want to hire you. Many of America's impoverished youth today seem to be lacking two things: self-respect, and proper mannerisms. They don't know how to speak properly, they don't have respect for others, they don't know how to dress, and they don't realize the importance in first impressions. If I was poor and I had very little money, and I was going to an interview for a job that pays well - I would dress with the best clothes I could get, even if they took out 30% of my monthly wage. You know why? Because first impressions are very important. If these people really wanted to get out of what is known as the "hood", then they would scrap up whatever they could, stay in school, off the streets, and save all the money they earn to move to a better neighborhood. It is not impossible. Minimum wage is nothing, but with the right choices and proper knowledge on finances -- you can make it.