BLOGLAND: tough breakup, need advice

[ABlockOfCheese]

Ok guys, here's the deal: Last night my first girlfriend of a month and I talked and she said she thinks we just need to be friends. She says she doesn't want it to be that way and she still likes me but she feels that we have nothing in common and she feels like our relationship isn't going anywhere. She says that maybe we have a chance at getting back together later, she just insists that "anything can happen" and she doesn't want to rule out the possibility of us getting back together later. I don't believe I'll ever meet another girl like her so I want to hold on as much as I can, and at the very least I want to stay on good terms with her, like friends do. Do you guys think I should just give it time and talk to her about trying again at some point or just let it go? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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[Space1255]

You know what to do.
Meet her in a WWE ring and TKO THE forget OUT OF HER

[Freek]

I would just let it go

[Dionysusan]

find something to take your mind off her

like a new hobby that she didnt share with you or something

or you could just masturbate

[Space1255]

find something to take your mind off her

like a new hobby that she didnt share with you or something

or you could just masturbate

then exit the building you're in.

[Frequency]

she wants someone else's d

that's the way it's gotta b

gg

no re

[Xphifre]

she wants someone else's d

[ABlockOfCheese]

I would just let it go

Do you mean like cut ties with her? because I don't want to do that.  Or do you mean like just let nature take its course and be her friend and if she wants to start again then go with it?

find something to take your mind off her

like a new hobby that she didnt share with you or something

or you could just masturbate

I have no drive to do anything.  I've looked through all my games and tried everything that usually cheers me up but none of it can hold my attention.  That's why I'm venting here.

[Dionysusan]

she wants someone else's d

this is almost always accurate. There is another guy wooing her better than you did (not trying to be mean at all) and while she might not really want anything loveual from that guy (probably does), he still has something that you don't meaning that there's someone else for you. If you guys don't get back together don't get discouraged and don't keep thinking of getting back together in the mean time.

[Freek]

Do you mean like cut ties with her? because I don't want to do that.  Or do you mean like just let nature take its course and be her friend and if she wants to start again then go with it?

The second one

[Satan From Wreck-It-Ralph]

eat her

[ABlockOfCheese]

this is almost always accurate. There is another guy wooing her better than you did (not trying to be mean at all) and while she might not really want anything loveual from that guy (probably does), he still has something that you don't meaning that there's someone else for you. If you guys don't get back together don't get discouraged and don't keep thinking of getting back together in the mean time.

I know that isn't it though.  She said she kinda doesn't think she wants a relationship at this point.

The second one

I guess I'll do that and just keep an open mind.

[Dionysusan]

eat her

he already has heartache the man doesn't need stomach ache too

I know that isn't it though.  She said she kinda doesn't think she wants a relationship at this point.

well I know how you feel, the stuff dries you up bad when you think it's going good and they just don't feel it anymore. I've been told that by girls but usually it's just because they don't want to hurt your feelings.

[Legoboss]

she is weak and not good enough for you.
sacrifice her to your closest dark lord and hope for a better one.

[Frequency]

this is almost always accurate. There is another guy wooing her better than you did (not trying to be mean at all) and while she might not really want anything loveual from that guy (probably does), he still has something that you don't meaning that there's someone else for you. If you guys don't get back together don't get discouraged and don't keep thinking of getting back together in the mean time.

all of this

depending on who you are and who you're around, there may or may not be several relationships and breakups.

but the whole point is to find someone who you want to stick with and who wants to stick with you

this clearly isn't that relationship, so you're going to have to work to find the right one instead of letting this one relationship be the one that defeats you.

I know that isn't it though.  She said she kinda doesn't think she wants a relationship at this point.

i think she's just trying to be nice.

at this age, almost everyone wants a relationship lol (either that or she's trying to "find" herself)