also
if espio turns to drugs or whatever, let him learn his mistake in the way of having horrible liver and lungs
he probably wont listen to you if you tell him that its bad, drinking vodka at 14 years old is apparently the new cool kid jig
Now, honestly
I've been taught this at school, but I don't remember the exact wording, it was a while back.
You try to help someone out, but they don't listen and you can't do anything about it, So you just back off and let them deal with it themselves
I agree somewhat, but letting them learn a mistake is the
very last thing you should do. He shouldn't be aloud to just forget up his life willingly, hes going to regret that the rest of his life.