I find myself playing on this server almost every night alone because I never see anyone else on. I like playing with a bunch of mods but If I had to make a request, something to make mobs stop spawning in my house even though there is a metric forget-ton of light. Also Chisel crashes me every time I try to use a glass block, glass pane, iron bars, or automation blocks. Now we all know the default glass sucks ass and the clear glass from Tinker's Workshop is completely transparent and looks like stuff too. A way to resolve that would be nice as those are pretty important blocks.
I'd also recommend decocraft, betterchests (or any other mod that allows you to make bigger capacity chests) and clearing out any of the mods you don't necessarily care for since all the incompatibilities probably add up.
That being said, we should get some more people on here as well as maybe a map restart (since I don't really see anyone playing anyways)