Author Topic: Does an employer have the right to call you on your day off and scold you?  (Read 1348 times)

Alright guys so I know pretty much half of you will have no idea to this question but most of the things I've asked here have gotten pretty knowledgeable replies.


So today I get a text from one of my close friends and coworkers. She said she had been crying because two of our employers called her on speakerphone to scold and belittle her. The employers were angry about something that happened 3 days prior on Sunday. A bit into backstory, my coworker is a part time employee and goes to school full time for nursing. She is noticeably under large amounts of stress due to schoolwork and because of this she is only able to work Sundays, which our manager has been fine with for months. Occasionally she will request a Sunday off to further catch up on school work.

She had attempted to request off this Sunday, Oct 4th but upon working 3 days ago saw our manager had posted her request off publicly on a board saying "due to an upcoming event no RO will be honored. Our employer posted this last minute so my coworker was noticeably upset. She was very angry Sunday talking loudly to me about how it was unfair and that she wasn't even part of the event and that she was stressed because of school work. Apparently the current on duty manager "Pete" had overheard her and told our manager who makes the schedules about it. In the meantime, my coworker emailed another manager asking if she can find coverage for sunday and that manager, Kathy, agreed.

So back to today. Pete and our schedule manager both call my coworker on her day off on speakerphone and from what I'm told begin scolding her about this event that happened 3 days ago. Most of the phonecall was our scheduling manager yelling about how my coworker was "Talking stuff" on her. She mentioned my coworker going to Kathy once but it obviously wasn't the point of the phonecall. They disguised the legitimacy of the call by claiming my coworker was "bringing down moral." However I was the only one she vented to that day, and I had not made any complaints. Our scheduling manager was making comments saying how she was going to email Kathy for the sole purpose of having her not find my coworker coverage. They kept her on the phone for 10 minutes scolding her for nothing more then venting her frustrations privately to a friend. My coworker remained professional and attempted to apologize multiple times however "they kept digging like they wanted to get a rise out of me. But I could only take so much until I started to cry." My coworker then sent this manager another apology, to which the manager did not reply.

I personally don't know much about what is allowed for employers to do so I'm curious if any of you do. So forums, are employers actually allowed to call you on your day off and scold you for 10 minutes over something that happened days ago. It seems very unprofessional for an employer to go to these lengths about an employee talking about them. Is there anything my coworker can do about this?
« Last Edit: September 29, 2015, 04:36:29 PM by Destroyer »

That employer sounds like a huge starfish. And no its definitely not ok for them to call you on your day off just to scold you. My sympathies man.

this is normal for employers to do

if the contract you signed gave them the right to call you when you're off work, they can do that
and scolding probably isn't something that was in the contract, but it's not illegal either

if the contract you signed gave them the right to call you when you're off work, they can do that
and scolding probably isn't something that was in the contract, but it's not illegal either
90% of the time it's in the contract.

dont believe me? get a job and look at the fine print of your contract

I remember my sister was almost fired because she couldnt come to work, on her days off, when they asked her.

Doesn't sound acceptable.
Does your work have an HR department? Have your friend contact them if they do.

Whether or not they are allowed to contact you in your off time, they are not allowed to gang up on you and make you cry.

Doesn't sound acceptable.
Does your work have an HR department? Have your friend contact them if they do.

Whether or not they are allowed to contact you in your off time, they are not allowed to gang up on you and make you cry.

this is normal for employers to do

i've seen it happen constantly to hundreds of thousands of people

Yeah I don't doubt they are able to call you on your day off.

But to me it sounds extremely unacceptable to make a call purely out of something as petty as venting about the manager. I would expect management to uphold a certain level of professionalism and yelling for 10 minutes about being called unfair doesn't sound very professional.

The fact that they continued after she apologized multiple times also makes me think borderline harassment. Once my coworker apologized the issue should have been squashed. It is taking it to a new level by continuing to yell until the point that she cried.


Yeah I don't doubt they are able to call you on your day off.

But to me it sounds extremely unacceptable to make a call purely out of something as petty as venting about the manager. I would expect management to uphold a certain level of professionalism and yelling for 10 minutes about being called unfair doesn't sound very professional.

The fact that they continued after she apologized multiple times also makes me think borderline harassment. Once my coworker apologized the issue should have been squashed. It is taking it to a new level by continuing to yell until the point that she cried.


if it's this severe, which it isnt go ahead and find a new job there are plenty unlike some lazy ass individuals like to say.

your co worker is exaggerating and bullstuffting you.

Pretty sure they have the right, it's definitely in the contract somewhere. This sounds like one of those "they're not wrong, they're just an starfish" kinda situations

This sounds like one of those "they're not wrong, they're just an starfish" kinda situations
Well being an starfish is always wrong IMO

i imagine this is a senario where any common sense would tell you that of course this may have been out of their boundaries, but on paper what they did was probably completely legal.

her contract probably states somewhere that they do indeed have the right to call her, and probably even have the right to reprimand her if they believe what ever she did falls under whatever specific guidelines that would allow them to go to such measures

They disguised the legitimacy of the call by claiming my coworker was "bringing down moral." However I was the only one she vented to that day, and I had not made any complaints. Our scheduling manager was making comments saying how she was going to email Kathy for the sole purpose of having her not find my coworker coverage.
this right here makes me think that

yes by your standards they probably went overboard. by the higher-ups, they're probably just doing their jobs. maybe unnecessarily harsh, but still doing them

they are unfortunately allowed to do this. the employers are just jackasses. i'd recommend to find a different more reliable and friendly job in the meantime.

Well being an starfish is always wrong IMO
Morally wrong, maybe. But that quote refers more to legally wrong