am i a bad person for this?

[hillkill]

this happened 2 weeks ago.

to put a long story short, we'd been talking for a few months online, found out she lived close, so we met publicly and she was so fat i couldn't even look at her i was so disgusted, left the place, and then blocked her number.

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[Trogtor]

no not really but you should have asked for pictures first

try to make it where she can have absolutely no way to contact you. i hope you didnt give too much information out

[Malleo100]

It doesn't make you a bad person but it is rude

[SteveJenkins]

no

if you don't want to be with someone then that's your choice

although I think you should've just said you weren't interested instead of completely shutting down

[hillkill]

well i did kind of have a panic attack because i have social anxiety, so that was part of the reason i left. i never said goodbye. also, she did give me pictures, but she didn't look fat in them.

[Trogtor]

but she didn't look fat in them.

she brought this on herself lol

[Xealyth]

lol

[Tokerovin]

You aren't a bad person, just a bit of an starfish for being abrupt about it.

But no need to humor something that has no chance.

[sir dooble]

Did you actually talk to her when you saw her, or just stood her up then and there?

Fair enough if you didn't like her because of her appearance, but it's very rude to arrange to meet with someone and then not turn up, or rather, turn up and then leave without talking to them.

[hillkill]

Did you actually talk to her when you saw her, or just stood her up then and there?

Fair enough if you didn't like her because of her appearance, but it's very rude to arrange to meet with someone and then not turn up, or rather, turn up and then leave without talking to them.

i tried to talk, but was too paralyzed with fear to actually get real words out. all i could get out was "i have to go".

[dr_pepper]

i tried to talk, but was too paralyzed with fear to actually get real words out. all i could get out was "i have to go".

Just lie and say that you were too nervous and that you couldn't bring yourself to do it. That's all I got so far.

[hillkill]

Just lie and say that you were too nervous and that you couldn't bring yourself to do it. That's all I got so far.

it's too late i blocked her a few weeks ago, but i can't stop feeling guilty about it and i'm just trying to figure out a way to gain some peace of mind.

[Epicduke]

stranger danger

[Space1255]

Yes.
You didn't make it humorous enough.

[Rigel]

it's too late i blocked her a few weeks ago, but i can't stop feeling guilty about it and i'm just trying to figure out a way to gain some peace of mind.

she lied about her appearance in pictures, she deserves that stuff.