not sure if this girls thinks of me as her friend; mixed signals

[hillkill]

normally during the school day, she will rarely talk to me and will avoid me at times, will pretty much only respond to hellos and goodbyes. one time she even asked me to stop staring at her (when i wasn't btw). during the football games, she's all buddy buddy with me, and social-able and such. i'm really confused if i'm her friend or not.

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[carolcat]

is she usually around her friends when she avoids you? or people that she knows well? it could be that she doesn't really want to be seen around you or something.

[Ner0]

she wants the d

[hillkill]

is she usually around her friends when she avoids you?

she usually hangs out with this one friend all the time, so yeah.

[Foxscotch]

my guess is she likes you (not wants to date you) but is embarrassed by you, and doesn't want her friends to know she likes you. which means trying to be her friend is a bad idea
just ask her why she acts that way

[hillkill]

we're both in the band at the football games, all her friends and stuff are there. i went to a party and she was there and everyone was around and we were laughing and shooting the stuff playing cards against humanity.

[Foxscotch]

well, that's weird. just ask her. you're not gonna get a reliable answer from us. maybe she's just irritable at school and doesn't want to talk to people in general or something

[Xphifre]

shooting the stuff

Is this one of those rapid-fire stuffting parties i've been hearing about?

[Ravencroft·]

Is this one of those rapid-fire stuffting parties i've been hearing about?

i interpreted it as shooting heroin

[hillkill]

i can't be straight up about anything social. i don't risk getting rejected about anything, or else i get severely depressed and anxious. for example, it happened when she told me to stop staring at her.

[Foxscotch]

"shoot the stuff. (idiomatic, vulgar) To chat casually; to gossip. We didn't do much besides stand around and shoot the stuff, but it was fun to see him again."
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i can't be straight up about anything social.

text her? there's really no way for us to know what the deal is. your only options are to ask her or just live with it

[carolcat]

well, that's weird. just ask her. you're not gonna get a reliable answer from us. maybe she's just irritable at school and doesn't want to talk to people in general or something

yea, personally speaking i tend to get irritated easily at school and it makes me snippy at people who i don't dislike (i.e. the handsome football player who sits by me in class but started dating a mexican insted)

it could just be the environment and you keep catching her in bad moods

[Tetris]

totally tsundere

[Red Spy]

but started dating a mexican instead

What

[Tayasaurus]

You're Senpai, you are to only notice her when she wants to be noticed