i don't think monday is offensive either
i'd take the word a lot more seriously if people didn't say that it's ok when black people say it
It's offensive enough to get you suspended from school
Also I've never heard a single black person ever say 'monday' before. And, as our families always tell us, 'monday' is a white mans word. It's essentially a derogatory term that was used frequently before the 80s to denote the presence of a colored male or female. Today people use the derivative 'brother' which is more loose and tends to signify comeradeship rather than skin tone or race
The way I see it, if I'm referred to as 'brother' by someone I won't take much offense from it, but if someone calls me a 'monday' I'll likely destroy their jaw, although this is heavily based on the context it's used in.