stufflord defense minister in the house
as much a I hate to throw out 'circle jerk' it's the team speak circle jerk.
This is what i mean when i say "witch-hunt type scenarios" stufflord says something, asks a question even, someone disagrees with it, then stufflord disagrees with what they say or some cases agrees instead, it goes from there, then someone like me, (one of his friends) comes in to take his side if they feel they should, or anyone who just thinks he isn't in the wrong says something, and then stuff like above happens.
It doesn't appear you have the problem solving skills needed to carry out a conversation, if you need to go after people for defending their friends, especially when you have plenty of people who do the same thing for you.
I get it, you don't like him, you don't like me, okay, this is fine this is normal to not like people.
doing what you do, in my opinion, isn't alright though and in-fact just makes
the issue worse, instead of just telling him/us what we're doing wrong, in most of these scenarios, all you've done is spew a colorful mist of bullstuff, you know like when he asks a question, you call him stupid instead of just answering the question.
You want this to stop? you want the arguing to stop? here's a simple answer to that issue, stop being hostile.
sure it might not be as simple as that, but let me tell you something, It just works.
once you stop being so hostile, even if you don't do it on purpose, stufflord and company wouldn't be so defensive, to an extent we can be pretty hostile back, but it really need to get to a fine boiling point.
it needs to be a mixed effort here, both parties need to comply, i know this, it will only work when the both parties can stop stuffting on each-other, if you don't want to work on that issue together, you can't complain when this continues to happen, it's just a false solution to your issue that only makes the problem get worse, not better.