Remember that chick I met a couple months ago? Meet The Parents Edition!

[Col. Derontchi]

I like to quote a dumb phrase "yolo" and while the phrase sucks and the people who say it are handicapped. The message still holds water.

Right, and I want to spend as much of my life as I possibly can with this girl. I would just like that time to last at least till next Saturday. I don't wanna forget things up because I suck at texting before we even have our first date.

Basically, how do I get her to text me less without seeming uninterested? If we text much, it'll have a huge effect on the first date.

[Ad Bot]

[Lord Tony®]

Right, and I want to spend as much of my life as I possibly can with this girl. I would just like that time to last at least till next Saturday. I don't wanna forget things up because I suck at texting before we even have our first date.

Basically, how do I get her to text me less without seeming uninterested? If we text much, it'll have a huge effect on the first date.

Geez you're already planning like your entire life with her.

When I date any girl I'm fully aware it may not last forever, lol.

[Foxscotch]

Right, and I want to spend as much of my life as I possibly can with this girl.

so how in god's name do you think it's okay that you get bored of her talking to you?

[Col. Derontchi]

so how in god's name do you think it's okay that you get bored of her talking to you?

I'm not bored of talking to her, I just don't want to get to know all about her before the first date. Premature Escalation, it's called.

Geez you're already planning like your entire life with her.

When I date any girl I'm fully aware it may not last forever, lol.

Read below. I said as much as my life as possible. If it's only a week, so be it. There's this thing called "premature escalation".

[Rally]

Right, and I want to spend as much of my life as I possibly can with this girl.

Sorry but it's not going to last long if you're already running out of stuff to talk about after what like, 2-3 days of texting? If you're with the right person it should just come easy. Talk about hobbies, tell stories and ask questions. Don't worry, it is incredibly difficult for two people to tell each other everything about themselves in under a week.

I don't know if you've noticed but you've basically got this stuff on lock. If she doesn't think you're a total loser right now she probably wont unless you say something very very scary or some stuff.

[Foxscotch]

I'm not bored of talking to her, I just don't want to get to know all about her before the first date. Premature Escalation, it's called.

even at 16 someone has experienced enough in their life to talk for ages about the past, and every day, something new happens
unless you're not right for each other, talking will not be a problem

also, you said it was "getting stale," and I'm not really sure how that can mean anything other than boring

[Col. Derontchi]

I'd rather talk about this stuff in person though, so that she can get a better idea of who I am and I can get a better idea of who she is. I don't want to have several mini first dates a day until loving saturday. She gave me an entire interview yesterday.

[sir dooble]

She's obviously very interested in you.
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

You won't learn everything there is about her between Tuesday and Saturday. And she won't learn everything about you either.
Don't stress yourself out. Just relax. You've got a date in 4 days, she likes you, there's nothing to worry about.

[shitlord]

yeah take it a little slower
i assure you that you dont want to spend the rest of your life with someone before you spend awhile with them and get to know them well
dont base everything off the up-front experience and looks

[Foxscotch]

i assure you that you dont want to spend the rest of your life with someone before you spend awhile with them and get to know them well

read this sentence again and tell me it makes sense

[Lockebox]

um

be yourself and um

give her a flower or flowerz depending on availability

ummm

certainly capitalize on your pleasant non-taboo qualities!

[shitlord]

read this sentence again and tell me it makes sense

im trying to say you want to know someone really well before you decide to spend the rest of your life with them

also that sentence makes perfect sense to me i dont understand what you mean

[SWAT One]

If you want to speak with her, speak with her in person, not over a call or text.  It shows that you enjoy being with her in person and are investing your efforts towards making your time together valuable.

[Nonnel]

"premature escalation"

omfg lmao

[SlayerZ99]

But before the first date? Is it too exposing to text her every day? How many convos are usual per day, just out of curiosity?

I dont really know how many different conversations exactly that we have per day but we started using facebook messenger to talk and in the span of about 6 months we've sent over 40,000 messages