Do you mean degrading for them? I can relate to that, I felt the same for a while but at the same time I loved going down on my GF. My mentality changed once I realised that my GF liked doing it because she enjoyed it and it turned her on.
As for the kissing bit, you get over that lol.
It's not really the kissing thing, but I don't know. I'm not really into that sorta thing and neither is the gal I'm with. We've tried that but I didn't really like it and she didn't seem to either, it was awkward to do to be honest. It's nice the other way around, but when I'm the one receiving it... eugh
Not trying to knock people who do like that stuff, more power to you if you like it!
Nothing like a good snowball back in your gob.
Do you even SPEAK American?