The guy who was killed.
Also in before the police haters.
From what it sounds like, the police did what they could in the situation they were given. The father was shot and went down, but he didn't die at the home. He died at some point in the transition from the scene to the hospital, which is about 10 minutes away if it was St. Vincents, 15 if it was Norwalk, ~40 if it was Yale. They didn't seem to be shooting to kill, just to incapacitate, because by god, from the pictures of the police presence and their gear, they could have turned him into a pink mist if they wanted to. The police in my town have an APC.