Author Topic: And so my long journey begins (Mr Man isn't so much of a Mr Man)  (Read 10544 times)



what's your name?
I havent officially started using a girl name yet, but I'm probably going to go with Amelia or Amy for short. That's what my parents were originally gonna name me.
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I love the name Amelia
It's in my top 3

your name should be

siquandrialena


so did your girlfriend break up with you

so did your girlfriend break up with you
oh stuff the hands are flying

I suspect gender dysphoria has less to do with wanting to be female and more with wanting to be feminine. Our culture has a really big separation between what's considered an ideal man and what's considered an ideal woman. Trans people want to be considered women so that they're more comfortable with their femininity.

good luck!! ignore those starfishs like lurker and be happy

so did your girlfriend break up with you
No, although idk how things are gonna go. She's been supportive of my crossdressing and femininity, but she also seems to have a huge femboy special interest and likes me having a richard. I, however, do not. She doesn't know that I'm actually trans and is currently in a boarding school with minimal contact (theraputic program), but she loves me and we're probably gonna stay together if we ever see eachother again.

I suspect gender dysphoria has less to do with wanting to be female and more with wanting to be feminine. Our culture has a really big separation between what's considered an ideal man and what's considered an ideal woman. Trans people want to be considered women so that they're more comfortable with their femininity.
It's a different feeling though. Like, I'm actually a girl at heart and feel like I really should have been one biologically.  I don't believe in gender roles and I have both feminine and non feminine interests. I just am a girl, simple as that. I'd be more comfortable with myself as a whole if I had a body to match, and I'm pretty uncomfortable being a "guy".

just so you guys know, uh, clownfish isn't actually a clownfish

just so you guys know, uh, clownfish isn't actually a clownfish
Does that mean I can stop looking for his son?

It's a different feeling though. Like, I'm actually a girl at heart and feel like I really should have been one biologically.  I don't believe in gender roles and I have both feminine and non feminine interests. I just am a girl, simple as that. I'd be more comfortable with myself as a whole if I had a body to match, and I'm pretty uncomfortable being a "guy".
What i mean is that I think that there's a big split between what's considered a "man" and what's considered a "woman" culturally, so it might be a lot easier to go all the way "I'm a woman!" instead of just being a feminine man who wears dresses and stuff, because a "dude" in a dress would just get weird looks. If you pass as a woman few would notice.

You feel whatever you want though, I just think that if people would identify by their genitals but wear and act in whatever way they wish would be great, it would be more convenient and we wouldn't need all the "genderfluidqueerkin" identifiers that makes it all confusing.