Idk that sounds like a pretty rad party to me, or at least had the potential to be. Random loving has never been tolerated around me; it's not hard to deal with especially if you're the host. People will bend over backwards to appease the host of any party, so being like "dude, stop loving on my couch" will clean that stuff up real quick. Other than that, sounds like a pretty decent party. Maybe it was lacking music or beer pong or some kind of activity.