To me it's the most trashy thing you could want/need in a relationship. If you're that empty that you need to be dominant over your partner in this way there's a major issue and just reflects poorly on you as a person. Basically, it says 'Im so uncomfortable with myself that I look for validation in my partners to get off on.'
Dominance is a petty thing that I chalk up to the male's version of doing your makeup, and your mascara is running.
Yeah but dominance and submissiveness are all biologically hard coded into our personalities. When consenting adults have love there's always one partner that has more of one side than the other, or sometimes they switch roles and stuff. It's universal, in heteroloveual or homoloveual relationships of all sorts, there will be one partner that takes initiative most of the time and one that defers to the other to take initiative
it's not really petty its just a preference of how two adults like to be intimate with each other. it's severely different than like, being controlling outside of a relationship, which is extremely scummy and off-putting.
Dominance is a petty thing that I chalk up to the male's version of doing your makeup
are you implying that makeup is petty?