Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?

[Rally]

long distance relationships dont work. either you go full-commitment mode and have them move in with you, or just forget off and get yourself a real girlfriend. people who think there is a possible in-between are horny teenagers or catfish-bait

relationships are centered around two things- money and intimacy. in a LDR, neither of those things exist, so its only a matter of time before your piece of ldr ass finds a sugar daddy or some richard

< when you leave your home town to study abroad and you instantly get cucked

Might be a personal problem

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[PhantOS]

its literally the truth. ldrs don't exist. it's not a relationship to just talk to someone about love and how much you love them and then not have love or do anything that shows you love them

[PhantOS]

ldrs have no form of commitment, financial aspect, or intimacy, which means they can't function at all. its literally that simple. as soon as you find someone that can commit, has some form of income, and is willing to satisfy your loveual needs, then you'll take that over the ldr

[IkeTheGeneric]

its literally the truth. ldrs don't exist. it's not a relationship to just talk to someone about love and how much you love them and then not have love or do anything that shows you love them

ldrs have no form of commitment, financial aspect, or intimacy, which means they can't function at all. its literally that simple

Why should OP take your word on the nuance of personal relationships when you couldn't even grasp the nuance of functioning on a lego forum? As far as I can tell, this is just some mad stuff about your own failed relationships. You don't have to stuff on OP's parade dude

[Electrk.]

listen to phantos he had love once he told me

[Pecon]

it's not a relationship to just talk to someone about love and how much you love them

I don't think you actually know how a relationship works.

[Rally]

ldrs have no form of commitment, financial aspect, or intimacy, which means they can't function at all. its literally that simple. as soon as you find someone that can commit, has some form of income, and is willing to satisfy your loveual needs, then you'll take that over the ldr

Are you trolling? I don't see why someone should just throw an entire relationship in the garbage because they don't get instant loveual gratification.

[torin²]

phantos got cucked

[PhantOS]

listen to phantos he told me he had love once

i lost count, let me ask your sister quickly

I don't think you actually know how a relationship works.

that's actually how relations work. people have needs, and relationships are built around those needs. if none of them are being satisfied (the actual case of a long distance relationship) then nothing exists

Are you trolling? I don't see why someone should just throw an entire relationship in the garbage because they don't get instant loveual gratification.

you didn't read my post. love is one of the 3 or 4 needs in a relationship

[Drydess]

listen to phantos he had love once he told me

were you one of his ldrs

[Rally]

you didn't read my post

Yeah I left out the weird stuff about money and income because I don't think me or anybody else here treats relationships like a business

Like, what

[Electrk.]

Are you trolling? I don't see why someone should just throw an entire relationship in the garbage because they don't get instant loveual gratification.

no see women only want money and men only want love its that simple, thats how relationships work or at least thats what /r/theredpill told me

[PhantOS]

As far as I can tell, this is just some mad stuff about your own failed relationships. You don't have to stuff on OP's parade dude

are you going to tell me that there's a single long-distance relationship that can sustain itself longer than like, 2 weeks?

Yeah I left out the weird stuff about money and income because I don't think me or anybody else here treats relationships like a business

Like, what

is commitment also part of the 'business' aspect?

[Nal]

I've had one, and I'm a really affectionate kinda guy and like: the urge to hug is ridiculous. I dated a guy from Austria for two months and ultimately we broke up because of disagreements and other things that built up. I felt the need to because of how bad it got. However in general, I think distance can work with an open relationship, but it ultimately depends on the person with a closed relationship with what you want.

I would say it was worth it as I learned a lot about who I'm compatible with, but it works for some and doesn't for others.

also please ignore phantos he clearly doesn't know what he's talking about

are you going to tell me that there's a single long-distance relationship that can sustain itself longer than like, 2 weeks?

my friend met his boyfriend online and they have been dating for three years, they're getting engaged soon

[PhantOS]

if anyone wants to show me any other needs besides commitment, income, intimacy and communication, be my guest.