[blogland] Girlfriend wants a (female) forget buddy

[Deus Ex]

We've been dating for almost a year. She lives about three hours away. Apparently she's been interested in having a "playmate", strictly female, and she wants me to be involved in the decision making. She is, of course, open to threesomes. I think this is great, you know, every man's loving dream, but I'm wondering how complicated this is gonna get. The girl has to be interested in both of us, for starters. Then we have to trust her to not get attached. Like what if she forgets my girlfriend one time too many and she starts thinking there's something there beyond love? I'm not worried about my girlfriend doing anything crazy like leaving me for some butch chick or anything like that, and I know she's not gonna pull a "well now that we did it with a chick I wanna do it with a guy" thing on me 'cause we already discussed all that. Are we gonna have to like, sit down together and go on tinder while I'm visiting her like how is this gonna work

tl;dr gf wants a chick to have threesomes with but idk how complex this stuff is gonna get

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[Aplem]

Well, I am married now, but back when I was dating my wife we had discussed something similar to this and decided not to do it because of the fact that it would complicate things and risk bringing other things into the relationship that we didn't want. To be fair, we both knew that even though we trust each other entirely, love is the one thing in this world that makes people unpredictable. Especially once more people get involved.

It really comes down to what you want to do, and what you feel is right. My personal suggestion, don't have a threesome when you are involved in a stable relationship, unless you trust the third and new person entirely.

Basically, get to the know the new girl before you stick your wang in her twang.

[Deus Ex]

Basically, get to the know the new girl before you stick your wang in her twang.

Yeah definitely. We both agreed it'd be wild as forget to just jump into bed with a third person. We'd get to know her together. She said she didn't want either of us to be more friendly than the other with the girl. This is all talks right now and she isn't 100% trying to do this, we're just having the discussion.

[Aplem]

Yeah definitely. We both agreed it'd be wild as forget to just jump into bed with a third person. We'd get to know her together. She said she didn't want either of us to be more friendly than the other with the girl. This is all talks right now and she isn't 100% trying to do this, we're just having the discussion.

Then yeah, in the end it comes down to what you both want. Just make sure the new girl is "clean" if ya know what I mean.

[Deus Ex]

Then yeah, in the end it comes down to what you both want. Just make sure the new girl is "clean" if ya know what I mean.

Jesus, yeah. Forgot about that, lol

[Aplem]

Jesus, yeah. Forgot about that, lol

Hahaha, last thing you need is to find out the new girl had some STD that you and your girl both got. That is what I mean by making sure to stay safe and trusting the new person. I know it's a weird ass question to ask, but trust me, better to ask it than end up with some stank richard and herpes.

[Juncoph]

Yeah definitely. We both agreed it'd be wild as forget to just jump into bed with a third person. We'd get to know her together. She said she didn't want either of us to be more friendly than the other with the girl. This is all talks right now and she isn't 100% trying to do this, we're just having the discussion.

if you're worried about the new girl being attached

then uhhhh

harem

[Deus Ex]

Hahaha, last thing you need is to find out the new girl had some STD that you and your girl both got. That is what I mean by making sure to stay safe and trusting the new person. I know it's a weird ass question to ask, but trust me, better to ask it than end up with some stank richard and herpes.

We'll include STD tests in the application process

if you're worried about the new girl being attached

then uhhhh

harem

When I hear harem I think harem anime which is probably the most dysfunctional form of relationships ever

[torin²]

cuck Lol

[Deus Ex]

cuck Lol

nuh uh

[Drydess]

kill the girl

[Deus Ex]

kill the girl

that's a plan

[Drydess]

or you could kill your girlfriend and take the girl for your own

[torin²]

deus on the left

[Deus Ex]

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