Is there another place to meet up lol? I thought the whole idea was to try and figure out a way to make it work at his place because his friend has the good internet for LAN parties or something.
I think the 'psycho behavior' is being played up here. The one incident we've heard of is pretty strange, but it seems like it's already been talked about and dealt with, so I don't see what the issue is. I think if OP was in literally any level of communication with her it'd be fine, but that's obv not going to be facilitated by avoiding the situation lol