if you buy a game to enjoy the game and its mechanics then you wouldn't be bothered by something so trivial as women being in the game, something that has no effect on the mechanics. if you also weren't worried about that then you wouldn't be worried about Ella calling you loveist, because in the case above, you aren't
If you don't like women in your game, you are loveist. If you don't like being called loveist, then maybe don't hate on women for absolutely no reason. If this is a real problem for you and is interfering with your total war gameplay, then refund the game and don't play it ever again. Clearly black ops would be a better choice for you, a game with no women characters in it.