yo Deus... I want to reach across the aisle here. I think you chose a bad number by saying "5+ years" because 4 years and x months rounded up to 5 is still 5, and 5 years ago was one of the biggest common law decisions in American LGBT history. the forget does it matter if you were wrong in this instance? Everyone is wrong sometimes dude. I'm wrong all the time. But when you call the people you disagree with autistic cigarettes, it kinda makes it look like you never cared to begin with- makes it look like you just want to dismiss and insult people different from you from the start. Like, "oh, I was wrong? well you're uhhh gay, stupid, uhhh..." The fact the you will never back down from any point you make undercuts you constantly.