Story:
I went on a v20 server, by the host of Toughplayer1. Reason? Nothing much, except my friend getting banned from there for the reason of "no spamers", when he didn't say anything. I was really just there to see what would happen when I went there.
here's his ban picture:
Anyways... I went to the server. Map was Forest - Dark (v20, like i said.) When I spawned, Toughplayer1, and what I assume is his friend, Jaina Firebus, were telling scary stori- actually reading from creepypastas, since Jaina was reading this one that had to do with a game named "Rap Rat". (yeah i have no idea what that is.)
After that, Toughplayer made a minigame, and did
NOT tell me to join it. A few minutes later, I took a perma ban to the face.
Maybe the fact that they were both 40ks would help you out.